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users have wondered about what people feel that suddenly became rich.
The comments on this topic to share your opinion entrepreneurs who made
millions of dollars in many ways. Someone delay, and someone to sell
his company. They talked about what a man feels who suddenly can afford
it. And it is good.
Anonymous ($ 30 million)
Wealth isolates you from society. You can not complain about my life, or to talk about their problems to anyone except the circle closest friends. Otherwise, you simply deem insolent jerk. People less wealth is very difficult to sympathize with you, because they believe that money gives everything. This is not so.
With money comes a lot of problems. Lack of motivation to work, constant requests to borrow money from the suddenly appeared friends and relatives, jealousy and taxes - all this leaves no imprint on the most enjoyable life. If you have kids, you have to also think about how to motivate them to do something, instead of just wasting your money.
Do not rejoice that you will have a lot of free time. Idleness quickly get bored, and meetings with friends will have to forget, as almost all of them work a regular job from 9 to 17 hours. Money makes you lonely, and it was for me the biggest surprise and disappointment.
Anonymous ($ 4,000,000)
His small fortune I earned, putting money in the bank. By my standards, $ 4 000 000 - this is not so much, but in my circle of people I have the most money. Here are a few tips that I can give to the man who suddenly became rich:
1. Do not tell anyone about their money. At my previous job, I accidentally spilled the beans about their savings. The people I knew for years and thought were friends have changed. In conversations appeared envy and light sarcastic comments about me and my money. Over time, nothing has changed, despite the fact that I do not talk about it. Moving to a new job, I did not say a word about the money and only too happy to do so.
2. Material things do not bring pleasure. Superklishe, but I could not help but mention it. Probably, it is difficult to understand until you can not pass through the wealth itself. I bought the car and the expensive toys and they bring pleasure only the first time. Then you realize that this is just a unprofitable investments.
3. I left work. I'm still working in the IT-companies and live on the salary. Accumulated the money I decided to leave for retirement or unexpected situation.
Safa Jot Singh ($ 15 million)
I earned a lot of money by selling IT-start-up, when I was about 20 years old. And that's what I understood: to be rich is better than not to be rich, but not even close to as good as you think.
Firstly, you do not complain. Others will think that with money you've reached nirvana and no longer experiencing any problems, which, of course, not the case. Secondly, all of you will have something you need. And it is very difficult to understand, Do you or the person's all about money. Finally, friends and family. Did your relationship will remain the same, but most likely, they will change.
Do you think that as soon as get rich, your life will be better. And here you are getting rich, but life is not changed. Such an outcome can cause severe depression or life crisis. If you are not happy in the average well-off, you will not be happy and being rich.
Conclusion
The biggest problem is the isolation of the rich people. Yet we pay too much attention to money and nothing to put them on top of the list of its values. Everything is relative, and if you now want to buy a BMW, when you can afford it, you immediately want to Bentley. And so it will go on forever.
It would be interesting to know the opinion suddenly wealthy readers, if any. What problems or advantages you encounter after the get rich?
Anonymous ($ 30 million)
Wealth isolates you from society. You can not complain about my life, or to talk about their problems to anyone except the circle closest friends. Otherwise, you simply deem insolent jerk. People less wealth is very difficult to sympathize with you, because they believe that money gives everything. This is not so.
With money comes a lot of problems. Lack of motivation to work, constant requests to borrow money from the suddenly appeared friends and relatives, jealousy and taxes - all this leaves no imprint on the most enjoyable life. If you have kids, you have to also think about how to motivate them to do something, instead of just wasting your money.
Do not rejoice that you will have a lot of free time. Idleness quickly get bored, and meetings with friends will have to forget, as almost all of them work a regular job from 9 to 17 hours. Money makes you lonely, and it was for me the biggest surprise and disappointment.
Anonymous ($ 4,000,000)
His small fortune I earned, putting money in the bank. By my standards, $ 4 000 000 - this is not so much, but in my circle of people I have the most money. Here are a few tips that I can give to the man who suddenly became rich:
1. Do not tell anyone about their money. At my previous job, I accidentally spilled the beans about their savings. The people I knew for years and thought were friends have changed. In conversations appeared envy and light sarcastic comments about me and my money. Over time, nothing has changed, despite the fact that I do not talk about it. Moving to a new job, I did not say a word about the money and only too happy to do so.
2. Material things do not bring pleasure. Superklishe, but I could not help but mention it. Probably, it is difficult to understand until you can not pass through the wealth itself. I bought the car and the expensive toys and they bring pleasure only the first time. Then you realize that this is just a unprofitable investments.
3. I left work. I'm still working in the IT-companies and live on the salary. Accumulated the money I decided to leave for retirement or unexpected situation.
Safa Jot Singh ($ 15 million)
I earned a lot of money by selling IT-start-up, when I was about 20 years old. And that's what I understood: to be rich is better than not to be rich, but not even close to as good as you think.
Firstly, you do not complain. Others will think that with money you've reached nirvana and no longer experiencing any problems, which, of course, not the case. Secondly, all of you will have something you need. And it is very difficult to understand, Do you or the person's all about money. Finally, friends and family. Did your relationship will remain the same, but most likely, they will change.
Do you think that as soon as get rich, your life will be better. And here you are getting rich, but life is not changed. Such an outcome can cause severe depression or life crisis. If you are not happy in the average well-off, you will not be happy and being rich.
Conclusion
The biggest problem is the isolation of the rich people. Yet we pay too much attention to money and nothing to put them on top of the list of its values. Everything is relative, and if you now want to buy a BMW, when you can afford it, you immediately want to Bentley. And so it will go on forever.
It would be interesting to know the opinion suddenly wealthy readers, if any. What problems or advantages you encounter after the get rich?
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